You may be taking things the “wrong” way! (what a funny word, “wrong”. So entitled and self-righteous.)
A long time ago I realized just how much more empowered and free I felt when I finally accepted that perspective is everything! That meant that the way I was perceiving things was controlling how I was handling things. WOW! Imagine the POWER and potential for total freedom from letting others control how I felt!
Check out this quick video where I talk a bit more about this: